Love Guru says, Hi there, folks! Welcome to the Love Guru chat. Lets get started, shall we?

Jayu asked, Hi Love Guru... I'm Jay here This girl is my best friend since childhood and She has proposed me yesterday... she wants to settle in Ahmadabad because she has good carrier and job in the city. And I have already moved to Mumbai and having great carrier prospect in Mumbai... And I have one girl friend who is working with me and we are planning to marry... I love both of them? One I know thoroughly being my "childhood friend" and other one is an excellent in the kind of work I do.... Whom should I marry?

Love Guru answers, Excellent in the kind of work you do is not a criterion for marriage. Who do you love more? Who do you see yourself spending the rest of your life with? Thats the girl you should marry.

Tabassum asked, How can i impressed my boy friend

Love Guru answers, Tabassum, you dont need to impress your boyfriend. If he is with you, it is because he loves you. There is no need to put on an act to get his attention.

juned asked, hi, before marry is it good for to talk by telephone

Love Guru answers, Talking on the telephone is not enough if you are planning on marrying the person at the other end! You need to meet the person, get to know him/ her well enough.

says asked, where is love guruji, r u there for giving ans. or just time pass n u will going//... just reply us

Love Guru answers, We have been experiencing a few technical problems with the chat -- nobody is here just for time pass, as you put it!

vr asked, hi, my bf of 3 years has been laid off and its been three months he has not been placed. Due to this he removes his frustration on me...i dont knw what is to be done now...should i leave him or how shd i handle him..pls help

Love Guru answers, Well, you can try to handle him -- why not tell him that while you sympathise with his situation, you are not his punching-bag and will not tolerate being treated like one? Thousands have been displaced by the recession, it will take awhile for everyone to get back on their feet. Till then, he has to maintain a positive, cheerful outlook or will wind up alone and miserable.

dsa asked, Hi, I am in relationship with this girl and we have a long distnace relationship going on for 3 years now. We are also planning to getting married by the next year. My only problem is that this girl is very outgoing as opposed to me. Also I am pretty unsure about her loyalty because she never even picks up the phone when she is with her friends. Sometimes I think that my suspisions are just a reflection of my guilt as I too am attracted to other girls (although I have strictly maintained every code of fidelity throughout). How can I get out of this situation. I want to be comfortable with her!

Love Guru answers, Well, one way of being comfortable with her is getting to know her friends, dont you think? Stop suspecting her of infidelity just because she is outgoing and you are not. Obviously an extrovert will have more friends than an introvert. As for not answering your calls, why dont you ask her why she doesnt when she is out with her friends?

says asked, HI LOVE GURU, THANX FOR COMMING, I M MARRIED, BUT I LOVE WITH MY COUSIN, SHE ALSO LOVE ME BEFORE MY MARRIGE N EVEN AFTER MY MARRIAGE, CAN I CONTINUE LOVE WITH MY COUSIN... JUST REPLY ME, WAITING FOR YOUR ANSWER, HAVE A NICE TIME...

Love Guru answers, Why did you get married if you were in love with someone else, even if that someone else is your cousin? Keeping on with the relationship may suit you and her just fine, but what about your wife? Is it fair to her? You are ruining her life through no fault of hers. What is she, a screen behind which you and your cousin can indulge in an affair? Call it off with your cousin immediately or then bring it out in the open and end your marriage. Stop thinking only of yourself.

(Advice from the Love Guru does not necessarily reflect the opinions of Rediff.com and should not be considered in the capacity of professional counselling.)