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Parents upset by your exam results?

May 24, 2006 15:45 IST

Some of you may have received your board exam results already.

And some of you are anxiously waiting for them to be declared.

Besides, wondering what you will do next you are also worried about your parents' reaction. Will they be satisfied or disappointed?

Career counsellors Prachi and Srividya from YoungBuzz, who chatted with Get Ahead readers on May 12, had this advice to offer: 'Understand that if your parents get upset, it is because they are also anxious about your future.'

'Try to communicate your feelings with them and listen to what they have to say. Communication always helps.'

For those of you who missed the chat, here is the transcript:

Part I: Awaiting exam results? A checklist


hello asked, What is the future of Software industry ?

Srividya answers, 
IT is a booming industry. You can do an MBA with a specialisation in IT.


NIhar asked, Sir, I am 12th stnd student and am interested in Mechatronics & Mechanical Which are the Best Institues in India for me ..I am also very much fond of Football???

Srividya answers, 
The best institutes include  the IITs, VJTI, Mumbai and Thadomal, Mumbai.  


Atin asked, Good Morning..... I wanted to ask you how to deal with the situation when the marks don't come as expected. Parents start saying things which sometimes are so discouraging!

Prachi answers, 
Hi Atin. It is disheartening to get results that are not up to the mark when you have worked hard. Understand that if your parents get upset, it is because they are also anxious about your future. They are upset about the situation, not really with you. Try to communicate your feelings with them and listen to what they have to say. Communication always helps.


gaurav asked, I want to become an accountant as my last years results were very good but this year it is very difficult. Do you think I should become an accountant?

Srividya answers, 
You can do a B Com with finance and accounts. Or a CA or an ICWA (cost accountancy). Later an MBA in finance


Mahadevan asked, I looking for a career in Animation and Computor graphics advice me on this pl

Srividya answers, 
You can pursue an under-graduate programme in animation from the National Institute of Design, Ahmedabad or a three month short-term course from Arena Multimedia (that offers courses at centres across India) or Edit Institute (that has several centres in western India).  


Atin asked, I know this is a stupid question but can you please tell be the careers which can be taken from commerce stream which earns you rock solid money (other than CA)!

Srividya answers, 
Ideally you need to pursue an MBA from top institutes like the IIMs or XLRI, Jamshedpur, which gives you better job prospects.


aero asked, will i get a chance to go abroad if i do aeronautical engineering from the bangalore college for ME?

Srividya answers, 
It depends on thte university. But it does have scope abroad.


Atin asked, know this is a stupid question but can you please tell be the careers which can be taken from commerce stream which earns you rock solid money (other than CA)!

Prachi answers, 
Hi Atin, you can earn a lot of money through various career avenues. All it needs is interest, aptitude and hard work. You could do an MBA in finance, ICWA courses, CS, etc. But again, hard work is the key.


Jacob asked, Wanted to ask if i take up the correspondence courses which gives direct final year i am working in a software company with 4 years of EXP

Srividya answers, 
Yes, you can do a correspondence course from a recognised university.


Munna asked, hello, financial engineering plz? \

Srividya answers, It is offered by the IITs and IIM Bangalore. It is a combination of financial analysis with a technical bent of mind.  


rodney asked, I am BCom from Mumbai University, I wan to pursue a career in MCA ,Currently I am Working In CMC Ltd,are ther any institutes offering part time MCa

Prachi answers, 
There is no institute offering a part-time MCA (masters in computer applications) . It is a full-time course.


mahendra asked, hi i am studying masters in information systems in sydeny what are the job prospects in india..?

Srividya answers, 
register at naukri.com or monster.com or rediff or other such sites for job opportunities.  


rodney asked, I am BCom from Mumbai university, I wan to pursue a career in MCA ,Currently I am Working In CMC Ltd,are ther any institutes offering part time MCa (masters in computer applications) 

Srividya answers, 
No, there's a correspondence course.


cooler asked, In the light of the reservations halla gullah, I am extremely discouraged to study. After all how should I convince myself that even after getting some good marks in XIIth next year, it will be easier for me given that I just have 50% of the seats available in all the exams and universities? Why should I not be positively encouraged to join my father's paan shop in the city?

Prachi answers, 
The quota debate is still on, so do not get discouraged yet.


Mahadevan asked,  I looking for a carrier in 3 D Animations and Computor graphics advice me on the right place do it ?

Srividya answers, 
We have answered your query (see above)


munnab asked, can u please tell me something about financial engineerin

Prachi answers, 
This is a new avenue worth exploring.


Jacob asked, this adds come in daily news paper " direct final year " and then i want to finish my MBA from a good college is that ok

Srividya answers, 
No, it is not okay. If you are getting a degree from a well renowned university, only then you should take it up.


Mahadevan asked,  I looking for a career in 3 D Animations and Computor graphics advice me on the right place do it ?

Prachi answers, 
You must be creative and have an aptitude for spatial relations and be able to visualise well. Institutes like Arena, Edit, Maya (Maya Academy of Advanced Cinematics, which has branches across India) and Graffiti (based in Mumbai) offer courses in graphics and animation.


deepaknprabhu asked, i am bcom from mumbai university I want to do MBA, i am working with an mnc full time is not possible i will have to go for either part time for correspondence which is helpful i alone in bmumbai i have financial problems also what to do

Srividya answers, 
If you have financial problem go for a part-time programme. You can also look at taking an education loan.  


aero asked, do universities abroad accept students from hindustan aernautics??? is there any exam for that?

Srividya answers, 
You should meet an overseas counsellor who will help you jot down the universities.


rohan asked, if i do diploma engineering in elctronics telecommunications,,,then will i get a a job and which companies will recruit. regards rohan

Srividya answers, 
Ideally, you need to pursue a degree programme which will give you better job prospects.


james asked, i need to know what are the available fields to be a web programmer, computer application software developer...which would be the best field for me to get into?for my graduation

Srividya answers, 
You can pursue either a BE in IT or Bsc in IT. Later, certificate programmes offered by CISCO / Novel.


bb asked, I am working as an Excecutive, Information Systems.To boost my career I want to do an MBA in Systems from ICFAI, cud u please tell about the acceptability of this course from ICFAI in industry

Srividya answers, 
ICFAI, Hyderabad is one the good universities so you can take up an MBA programme.  


aditya asked, on account of board results which engineering colleges will give addmission

Srividya answers, 
You need to give MHT-CET or IIT for getting into engineering.  


sabrina asked, i am studing in 7 std.i am scared of exams but i always get 1 or 2 rank what r the tips 2 reduce tension

Prachi answers, 
Hi Sabrina, a little tension is a good thing. However, getting too worked up about your exams is not healthy for you. Besides studies you must take up one hobby or sport that you enjoy and pursue it. Also, make time for your friends. And congrats on getting the first/ second rank!


adii asked,  hello sir, i wanted to know about the travel and tourism prospects?

Srividya answers, 
The travel industry is currently doing very well and you can take up an IATA course from institutes like IITC. For more info, you can log onto www.iitcworld.com


james asked, I would like to do BCA (bachelors in computer applications) ?Tell me how much is this degree going to help me in the long run of becoming a successful web programmer or do i need to have a post graduation degree in it too?MCA i mean..In other words where can u be consumed after i have a degree in Computer applications?

Srividya answers, 
MCA will definitely give you better prospects than a graduation.


mahendra asked, what is the future in IT industry in india

Prachi answers, 
IT is a booming industry and there is a demand for qualified IT professionals.


arvind asked, I am a Professional Consultant having about 8yrs of experience. Done MBA (DLP) and Graduated with 51% in B.Com. Now i am planning to go for LLB (legal studies) from DU(Regular Course). Am i Eligible for this and is this the right choice.

Srividya answers, 
If you are interested in law, you can definitely take it up. But i would recommend that you meet a career counsellor who wil giv eyou a more accurate picture as to what to consider


hello asked, @aditya i think Bits Pilani gives admission to students by the merit of board exam .

Srividya answers, 
Yes.


adii asked, hi prachi, can u tell me about tourism as a career?

Prachi answers, 
Hey, tourism in India is an upcoming career option, today. You could get into hotel management and travel/tourism as career options.


james asked, What about outsourcing?Is this a field of better prospects in the near future?

Srividya answers, 
Yes.


james asked, Which is the best College or computer institute in india to pursue an IT related degree?

Srividya answers, 
The best colleges are VJTI, Mumbai and IIT.  


Jai asked, I am waiting for my X Class results, just wanted to know what careers are available if take Non Medical in XI

Prachi answers, 
Could you clarify your question?


neelesh31 asked, I am working for last 11 years now, in the field of computer applications, dataentry, recruitments, but have not completed my graduation.

Srividya answers, 
are you looking at pursuing your studies?


sanjay0910 asked, Hi Prachi Looking to the future what is best options available for career

Srividya answers, 
Kindly mention your background or area of interest.


taha asked, hie! me taha ,k0l. i'm really excited 4 th outcome of the results......as well as very much afraid..my heart is beating more faster n faster as the time is getting closed...

Prachi answers, 
A mix of excitment and stress is normal. Good luck!


sanjay0910 asked, I am expecting 80+ percent what career line should i adapt for future

Srividya answers, 
From which background -- arts, science or commerce?


sanjay0910 asked, Hi Prachi Looking to the future what is best options available for career

Prachi answers, 
It depends on your aptitude and your interest. One way to find out is to take an aptitude test.


rema asked, i have done my bca and now m doing mba in 3rd semester, i would like to pursue my career in mba, how should i proceed?

Srividya answers, 
In MBA you have specialisations like finance, marketing, HR, systems -- so based on your interest opt for any one of them.  


arvind asked, Thanks a ton srividya but can u also help me by suggesting some career counsellors(Good Ones)with there names and nos or Web Addresses.

Srividya answers, 
Log on to www.youngbuzz.com  for career counsellors.


sanjay910 asked, Dear Prachi What are options available after x

Srividya answers, 
You can take up science, commerce, arts or design.You have lots of career options. If you are
having difficulty in selecting you can meet up a career counsellor.


taha1 asked, i wanna do multi media along with my studies...i that a good decision i made.

Srividya answers, 
It is a good decision because it will be an add on for your career.


Srividya says, Bye everyone. All the BEST and have a good day.


sreekanth asked, which are the best colleges for studying travel/tourism management?What are the job prospects?

Prachi answers, 
IITC recognised courses are good for travel and tourism and students who take up these have brighter prospects. Good colleges include CMR Institute of Management Studies, Bangalore and Garware Institute, Mumbai.


Prachi says, It was wonderful chatting with all of you. Do not get stressed. And all the best for your results.


Part I: Awaiting exam results? A checklist

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