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If it's your first trip abroad, it is natural to miss your home and loved ones. Read on to find out what you must do.
Everyone expects studying abroad to be an incredibly exciting experience.
However one phenomenon that can hamper the entire experience is “homesickness.”
Mostly fuelled by the cultural shock, homesickness can be a little daunting to deal with.
Here are a few valuable tips, which will help you overcome homesickness with ease.
1. Keep in touch with your family and friends
An assurance that your loved ones are just a call away is a great way to make you feel at home in a new setting.
Use Skype ,Whatsapp, or Facetime to keep in regular touch with your loved ones without causing a dent in your pocket.
2. Use online mediums to connect with people
You can spontaneously engage in unplanned chat sessions with your family and friends on G-chat, Skype chat or Facebook.
This will take your focus off from constantly thinking about what’s happening back home.
Keeping in touch with your loved ones does help but make sure that you don’t overdo it and end up getting completely dependent on them emotionally.
3. Visiting local temples, churches, and mosques
Paying customary visits to ISKCON temples, churches and mosques will make you feel connected to your religious roots and impart a sense of well-being.
4. Celebrate festivals with your peers and local community
With a little effort you will always manage to find folks from your home country.
Make it a point to regularly visit community centres and actively participate in celebrating festivals with them.
This will serve as a fantastic way to build new bonds of friendship and beat the homesickness blues.
5. Eat in an Indian restaurant
Occasionally sinking your teeth into a familiar cuisine will give you feeling of being at home; even if it is for a short while, it will surely serve its purpose.
6. Walk into an Indian grocery store
A random visit to the neighbourhood Indian grocery store and spotting Amul, Rasna and Parle-G is sure to bring a smile on your face.
7. Go with an open mind
You are going to a new country and be ready to embrace it with arms wide open.
Removing this mental barrier will help you broaden your horizons and help you in welcoming a new set of friends.
Be open to the idea of utilising your free time by closely working with student bodies and clubs.
If it still doesn’t help, don’t shy away from making the most of university’s student support services.
With a little counseling and student-mentoring program, you will settle down quickly.
8. Join a student group
Becoming a member of Indian Student Association will allow you opportunities to interact with your Indian peers and instantly feel at home.
9. Learn to be self-sufficient
You will miss your mom more than ever when you are required perform daily chores like washing, cooking, and cleaning.
Learning to single-handedly manage yourself will equip you to stay on your own and stop you from feeling forlorn and secluded.
10. Gear yourself up for a different climate
One important factor that students fail to anticipate is the difficulty in adapting to an altogether different climate.
Researching and preparing yourself for the unique climatic conditions of your host country will enable you to weather initial body shocks and adjustment challenges.
There are many like you out there struggling to acclimate themselves to a new setting, but rest assured it will soon start getting better.
Reassure yourself that homesickness is a 'transient emotion' and the sooner you get out of it, the better it is.
Do your utmost to convert your overseas higher education experience into a cherished memory for your lifetime!
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